police rushing to disrupt families

## police rushing to disrupt families

#### 31 August 2014
from celibate pedophiles

### ethan edwards

| From time to time there are coordinated arrests of CP offenders. Here's a recent one from the UK . Ethan Edwards is the co-founder of Virtuous Pedophiles. Blog posts reflect his personal views, and are not statements from the organization. From time to time there are coordinated arrests of CP offenders. .I've already argued that I don't think simple CP possession should be a criminal offense. What other benefits could come from these raids? The police congratulate themselves because they found a few people to charge with other offenses, and they remind us that some CP possession offenders go on to abuse children. Some do. But let's consider a "control experiment". Suppose the police simply did a raid on the houses of 660 random people in Britain. Surely they would find many who are engaged in some sort of criminal activity. But that's the sort of police activity that freedom-loving people detest — it suggests a police state. In the public's view it's tolerable as long as it's pedophiles being investigated (a civil liberties travesty, but let's ignore that). Even within their values, they neglect what happens when things go wrong. Innocent people can be caught up in the web. In the UK's <"Operation Ore" >, many of the people were located on the basis of what others had done with their stolen credit cards, many totally innocent lives were ruined, and an estimated 33 people killed themselves. Consider this quote from the recent raid: "More than 400 children across the United Kingdom have been protected from harm as a result". What that means is that the offending man was either removed from the home or else the child was removed. The attitude of law enforcement is that it's far better to disrupt 19 families unnecessarily than to let one child be abused by one man. No matter that the vast majority of pedophiles feel no attraction to their own children. No matter that the child in the home is a 6-year-old girl and all the video was all of 12-year-old boys. Having a father removed from the house is a very traumatic event for a child Being removed from a home into foster care is even more disruptive. And here's my controversial point of the day. Suppose we're talking traumatic abuse. The chances are very slim that the man is just about to abuse the child for the first time that night. Suppose the child has already been abused 10 times. Is it really going to be significantly more traumatic if they are abused an 11th time? This may sound terribly callous. The abuse is terrible and beyond defense. But here we are weighing competing risks in a child's life. I'm not comparing a child's suffering against some molester's satisfaction. I'm weighing the welfare of 19 children against one case where it's the 11th episode of abuse. Taking several days or even weeks to look in detail at the situation would be well worth while. If there is circumstantial evidence of abuse, ask the child in a brief, pleasant interview if anything bad has happened. If she says no, then leave the family alone. I would also expect that knowing a man is under investigation by the police would likely scare him out of any further illegal activity in the short term. If it's anything like the US, the raid itself can be . Police should not disrupt a family if the only evidence they have of trouble is the simple possession of CP. About the author: Ethan Edwards is a pseudonym. I am a pedophile, always celibate, and I have never seen child pornography. My attraction is strongest to girls around 4 years old, but I am also attracted to girls and women up through their 30s or beyond. Now in my late 60s, I'm divorced and living alone. I was married for over 10 years and was heavily involved with raising my 3 daughters. For most of my career I was a successful software engineer. I am very unusual for a pedophile in that I didn't realize that I was one until I was in my 50s—but it was there all along. I am angry that we all must remain silent or risk losing everything. That was my mindset when I co-founded Virtuous Pedophiles in 2012. I soon learned of the the terror of the typical pedophile who realizes as a teenager that his attraction isn't going to go away, who has nowhere to turn for help. The injustice I am most passionate about is the harsh legal penalties imposed on pedophiles who passively view illegal images of children. I stepped down from my role as a director of Virtuous Pedophiles early in 2024 and am delighted to pass the mantle on to a younger generation. This content was taken from Ethan's longstanding blog, Celibate Pedophiles. Some of the titles and taglines have been edited for their inclusion at thepword. You can see an earlier version of the blog at the wayback machine. |

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ethan edwards Looking at CP is illegal and can incur stiff penalties, and I would urge everyone to not look at it, for that reason if nothing else. Setting that aside, I think looking at CP is morally questionable. It would certainly make me personally uncomfortable. (I have never seen any). |  | ethan edwards Occasionally we get inquiries from girlfriends or wives who have just discovered their man is a pedophile. Should they stay together? |  | ethan edwards What evidence could anyone possibly marshal to conclude that all the members of a group — one defined by their thoughts and not their actions — are sex offenders if they are undetected by anyone?

what if ordinary porn was illegal? ethan edwards Looking at CP is illegal and can incur stiff penalties, and I would urge everyone to not look at it, for that reason if nothing else. Setting that aside, I think looking at CP is morally questionable. It would certainly make me personally uncomfortable. (I have never seen any).
to tell or not to tell? pedophiles and marriage ethan edwards Occasionally we get inquiries from girlfriends or wives who have just discovered their man is a pedophile. Should they stay together?
civil libertarians must accept celibate pedophilia ethan edwards What evidence could anyone possibly marshal to conclude that all the members of a group — one defined by their thoughts and not their actions — are sex offenders if they are undetected by anyone?